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Who Gets Frequent Flyer Miles in a Divorce?

With frequent flyer miles becoming more popular and more valuable, it is only a matter of time before divorce lawyers will begin making miles and points a more common issue in proceedings. What is the monetary value of a frequent flier mile? In most cases, it doesn’t actually matter because it will be redeemed for airline tickets; but in the case of a divorce, determining their value has become an increasingly common problem.

It’s now obvious these miles are valuable assets, especially when they have been accrued in large numbers over time. Most airlines prohibit the transferring of miles from one person to another – even in the case of divorcing couples – so other arrangements must be made. This begs the question: Are Frequent Flyer Miles property?

During the marriage itself, they are usually considered divisible property. And in most cases, the miles are considered a marital benefit that is subject to division in court.  Despite the legal view on airline miles, often a spouse will try to argue that they deserve them since they had to endure the discomforts of business travel.  If you honestly look at it, a spouse’s employer is the one who really paid for the airline flight.  The employer’s willingness to let an employee keep the frequent flyer miles for personal use creates a situation where they can be viewed like ordinary income which, in turn, becomes community property.

Most divorce lawyers will not go after a few hundred miles/points; however, when an “ex” has a few hundred thousand or a million frequent flyer miles, it could be worth their time.  Frequent flyer miles (and credit card or hotel points) should be valued with “relative ease” because each program tells you exactly what you can expect to receive if you use a specific number of miles or points.

In nearly all cases of divorce, miles and points are typically not included in the initial settlement because the valuation process is too inconclusive. In fact, many couples simply opt not to argue about it at all. But for the divorces in which they are included, there’s often a real fight for them.

As of yet, no court has been willing to make any firm or definitive declarations outright, including Texas. Some have treated miles as a marital asset without specifically declaring them property. In others, the courts have divided miles between parties, a division that was not questioned on appeal. One of the keys to determining whether something constitutes property is the concept of transferability. Rarely will a property interest be found if the owner cannot transfer an asset to another.

So, in the absence of any clear or fair way to value frequent flyer miles, many have suggested the only equitable means of division is to simply split the miles. But, the program itself may not be willing to play along. In the absence of a court order, not every program will simply set up a new account. In that case, the division needs to be done “indirectly,” e.g. strictly between the parties. Under a written agreement, the mileage owner doles out awards in the other party’s name over time. The willingness and benevolence of the parties can lead to unlimited solutions.

And finally, another common solution is for divorcing couples to allocate miles for equal benefit. For example, they might set aside a certain number of miles for their children to use when traveling back and forth from college. Again, it really depends upon the amicability between spouses and their ability to reach decisions that will benefit them both equally.

The bottom line is that if you want to keep your frequent flyer miles, make sure you have something to trade for that value.

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How Can Social Media Impact Your Divorce?

An old adage advises one to “think before you speak.” Nowadays, this can also apply to writing, blogging and so on while getting divorced. Facebook and Twitter are only two of the many different on line communities you can join, but they also carry risks and should be used with discretion.

Your spouse and his/her attorney may be able to see your comments on Facebook or other networking sites. Furthermore, each entry in these sites will trigger “Google Alerts” they can set on your name.  If you join and participate in these social networks, what you write and the pictures you post, among much else, will be in public view in perpetuity. Therefore, be careful not to say or do something you might regret later, even if you enjoyed saying or doing it at the time. You would be wise to assume anything you write or show on the web will be shown in court to a judge or jury; so ponder if it will it look good for you or hurt you in the legal sense. Digital evidence is, essentially, a huge factor.  Not only can it be used, but quick little comments and photos can be taken out of context.  It can also be used to substantiate nefarious claims such as alcohol abuse, endangerment of children, infidelity, et al.

There’s little the besmirched can do legally, unless there are children involved or the level of disparagement meets the parameters of Texas’ newly passed Internet harassment law. Regardless, family-law courts routinely issue restraining orders to prevent one parent from disparaging another to a child.  The First Amendment regularly comes into conflict with the family-law courts.

And as the age of online-social-network users creeps up, it overlaps more with the age of divorce-lawyer users, resulting in the kind of semi-public laundry-airing that can turn aggrieved spouses into enraged ones and friends into embarrassed spectators.

Lawyers love sites like Facebook, MySpace and LinkedIn, which can be evidentiary gold mines. In 2010, it’s now routine for lawyers to go over with clients whether they have an active presence on Twitter or have a MySpace/Facebook page. Lawyers advise you to scour your page for anything that could be used by your ex’s legal team, with good reason, as half the topics on social sites are personal opinion posts, something spurned spouses typically have. On the walls of two Facebook groups — I Hate My Ex-Husband and I Hate My Ex-Wife, which together had been joined by close to 300 Facebook users as of July — posts include all manner of vitriol.

To help, Time Magazine listed five “no nos” for those in the midst of divorce in a recent issue.

Paraphrasing:

  • Don’t “show off.” Pictures or discussions of new purchases or vacations can color the court’s view of your finances and affect your settlement.
  • Don’t show off your party photos. If you’re in a custody battle, your ex’s lawyers would love to present you in an immature light.
  • Be careful of those who’ve “tagged” your photos. It’s not just your page you have to worry about. Those can be used against you.
  • Don’t vent too much, talk negatively about lawyers, judges and especially your spouse anywhere. Your kids can read this too.
  • Don’t cut everyone off at once: in-laws, your ex’s friends, etc. People need time to adjust. (and you never know if you’ll need their assistance down the line.)

The Bottom line in all these instances is hardly rocket science: Think before you act.

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Can I Date Before My Divorce Finalizes?

In the State of Texas, dating before a divorce is finalized is not recommended. Even though most people “feel” divorced after they have separated from their spouse, you remain married until the day the Judge declares you are divorced.

Although companionship can help you to cope with the stresses of the divorce process, dating will only serve to complicate matters. Further, it may cause an emotional reaction from your current spouse that could change the dynamic of what began as an uncontested divorce. This could range from simple cold behavior to assertions of “adultery.”  If any lines have been blurred that would lead a judge to believe adultery occurred during the marriage, it could lessen the amount of money and assets (i.e. property) you recover in the divorce settlement. Additionally, it can be very confusing for your children if you start dating soon after separating from your spouse.

Because no one wants to hear the conservative advice of an attorney, I’ll try to appeal to your wallet.  The less friction in a divorce, the less the attorney fees will be.  If dating makes your spouse jealous or angry, it may make them unreasonable. A vindictive spouse can quickly make a divorce an expensive, time consuming, and emotionally-draining process.  Most attorneys in the State of Texas agree, if it all possible, to stay amiable and level-headed with your spouse throughout the process. You will then save yourself considerable headaches, not to mention attorney’s fees.

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Why Do I Need A Will?

Many people do not have a will and die without ever having one executed.  According to a 2007 research study conducted by Harris Interactive® for Martindale-Hubbell®, 55% of all American adults do not have a will.  African-Americans and Hispanic Americans are even less likely to have a will according to the study. Less than 33% of African American adults have wills and around 25% of Hispanic American adults have wills, compared to more than half (52 percent) of white American adults.

So you may ask yourself: “If so many people don’t have a will, why should I?”  In Texas, the legislature has decided who will inherit your estate if you fail to leave a will that designates your beneficiaries.  Most people would rather decide for themselves rather than leave it to our elected officials.

The most hair-raising issue that arises when an individual fails to leave a will is when a married couple has children from a previous marriage.  In this situation, when a spouse dies, the surviving spouse does not inherit 100% of the community property.  Rather, it is divided between the spouse and all of the children (both children before the marriage and children of the marriage, if any).  Numerous problems can arise: if the children are minors, the ex-spouse will likely be the person to represent the minor children because they cannot represent themselves; there may be strong feelings about sharing retirement monies or house sale proceeds when the couple planned to use this to live on in their golden years; or the dead spouse never intended to leave anything to one of her children because they were estranged. 

The bottom line is that most people do not want to contemplate their own immortality.  The drafting and executing of a will, however, is typically a simple process when overseen by a competent attorney.  A will becomes more complicated when an estate needs to include trusts to avoid estate taxes.  But the average American is not going to need tax planning because they will not die with an estate that will incur estate taxes.  (In 2009, an estate that is valued at 3.5 million dollars or more is subject to the estate tax.)  Thus, it is a process that will cost significantly less in dollars and emotions today than the costs after death if no will is executed.  (See further blogs on Heirship for more information on when an individual dies without a will.)

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For Unemployed, Child Support Payment Obligations Remain

In today’s economy, many hard-working people are finding themselves either unemployed or underemployed. Although these people may not be earning as much as they previously were, their obligations stay the same. One of those obligations is child support.

If there is a document signed by a judge ordering you to pay child support, you are responsible for that amount regardless of your changing circumstances. In order to change the amount of child support you owe, a new order must be signed by a judge. Most people run into trouble when they believe their change of circumstances is temporary. Nobody can predict the future. It is best to immediately consult with an attorney to see what steps to take to reduce your child support liability.

It is important to note that if you are unemployed and receiving unemployment, your child support will be figured according to your unemployment income. Also, if you are unemployed and without any source of income, there is a presumption that you could earn at least minimum wage. Thus, the child support will be calculated using the Federal Minimum Wage for a 40-hour work week.

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Calculating Child Support in Texas

Child support is a financial obligation of the obligor parent. Generally, this is the non-custodial parent. Calculating child support in Texas is done using the non-custodial parent’s net resources only—a new spouse’s income is not used to make this calculation. In fact, the Texas Family Code specifically prohibits using any portion of a spouse’s net resources to calculate child support. This also includes omitting the spouse’s capital gains, interest income, or dividends, which may in fact be community property. For example, if your spouse has rental property, the rents paid are not used to calculate the obligor’s net resources.

The key is the obligor’s net resources. Net resources include wages and salaries, dividends, capital gains, self-employment income, retirement benefits, trust income, unemployment benefits, gifts and prizes, alimony, interest income, net rental income, royalties, and any other income actually received. For calculating child support in Texas, you must figure the gross resources then subtract taxes (federal income taxes and social security), union dues (if applicable), and the cost of health care* for the child. The total resources minus taxes and insurance equals your net resources, which is used to figure the child support obligation.

*The Family Code presumes that the obligor parent will provide medical support for the child in addition to the child support obligation.

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Financial Cost of Divorce

Many factors can affect the financial cost of divorce: What are the issues and their complexity? Have the parties reached an agreement regarding all or some of the issues? Generally, the more complicated the divorce becomes the greater the financial cost. Elements of a divorce that can drive up the financial cost of a divorce settlement include division of property such as real estate and retirement or the parties’ inability to reach an agreement regarding custody.

Of course, aside from the issues, the attorney’s hourly rate is a factor in the cost. Generally, a more experienced attorney will charge more per hour than a less-experienced attorney. It is also important to note whether the attorney has a legal assistant or paralegal available to perform some of the work on the case at a lower hourly billable rate.

The financial costs associated with a divorce outside of an attorney’s hourly rate can include process server fees, depositions, courier fees, and administrative costs of the attorney. Of course, the filing fee is determined by the county in which you file your divorce and, in most cases, is based on whether children are involved. For example, Dallas County Family Court Filing Fees for a divorce without children are $244.00 and a divorce with children costs $284.00 to file.

The process server fees are set by the particular process server; some attorneys utilize a private process server while others utilize the county’s constables. Private process servers range from $55.00 to $75.00 for in-county service if it can be served within three attempts. The Dallas County Constables charge $70.00 for citation. Either a private process server or constable can serve someone with a lawsuit, except for a temporary ex parte protective order, which must be served by a constable.

Other financial costs of divorce that you may encounter include mediation fees and deposition fees. Private mediators charge anywhere from $350-$500 for a half-day mediation. In Dallas County, the Judges can order mediation to be held at Dispute Mediation Services (DMS), which only requires a $100 fee. Consult with your attorney about what is best for you and your case. Deposition fees include the court reporter’s time and the cost of the transcript. Court reporters generally charge per page at a rate of anywhere from $1.00 per page to $2.50 per page.

The way to keep the financial cost of divorce down in your case is to be organized and provide the information your attorney requests in a timely and organized manner. Also, depending on your situation, you may be able to reach some agreements with your spouse that you can present to your attorney for review.

In summary, make sure that you go over the financial costs of divorce, and associated serving and administrative fees, so that you are clear on what you will be charged for in your divorce. Divorce is stressful without considering the economics of it. Don’t be afraid to ask your attorney for cost-saving options.

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